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What is Romance? - An Urban Shamans View
by: Alex Gordon
When most people are living their early incarnations, they communicate with
violence. Whatever they desire, they acquire by force, be it physical, emotional
or verbal. Gradually, their lifetimes come and go, and they discover a new form
of communication - words, and they become intellectuals. Then, everything in the
natural world has to have it's common name, a Latin name, a species, a
sub-species, a genus, to push away the fear of 'the wild'.
These people wander for many lifetimes in the infinite jungle of the mind,
endlessly debating, discussing and deciding things, and putting up signposts
everywhere to reassure themselves that Nature has been tamed by logic.
Eventually, hopefully, as even more lifetimes go by, they discover the true and
Universal form of communication which is feelings, and only when a person has
achieved this can they understand and comprehend romance.
People evolve at different rates depending on their individual degree of
laziness. Some people achieve communication by feelings almost immediately, but
to most, sadly, it comes very slowly.
Romance is a love affair with being alive. It finds joy in the sight of clouds
drifting across the big sky. In the interplay of seedling grasses. In the
ripples of the wind on water. In the face of the moon and with the energies
which emanate from evolved people.
A man seeks to rest his soul in the energies of an evolved woman, and a woman
seeks the nurturing energies of an evolved man and then their spirits intertwine
and there is romance.
The violent person cannot understand romance because it cannot be conquered or
acquired.
The intellectual person cannot understand it because it cannot be labeled or
discussed or limited.
Since the term 'romance' is usually applied only to relationships between men
and women, a problem obviously arises when all three evolutionary types attempt
to inter-relate. It would help enormously if people worse badges stating for
example, 'lazy spirit - still communicating with violence', or, 'slow learner,
still communicating with words', or 'evolved person communicating with
feelings', for this would avoid the disastrous consequences created when a
violent person attempts to possess an evolved person, thus crushing their spirit
and poisoning them with their breath and energies, or when an intellectual
person attempts to relate to an evolved person and inevitably bores them to
death. This would avoid evolved people being subjugated by, and subjected to,
the violence, emotional blackmail, guilt-tripping and endless excuses which are
the tools of the less evolved.
The evolved person has a romantic affair with himself, or herself, and with the
whole wonder of existence. They need no-one, but they must be mindful only to
become attached to those on the same evolutionary level. Anything less than
this, any attempt to relate to people who are less evolved, will inevitably
result in them becoming either hurt and betrayed, or confused and complicated,
but in both cases, polluted, made old and ill, and eventually killed
This article by: Alex Gordon - Author of Nine Deadly Venoms - A Book for Today.
The days of priests and gurus are coming to an end - People want reality now,
truth, and the ability to help themselves. They want to be empowered.
(c) http://www.ninedeadlyvenoms.com
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